
Learning from People with Lived Experience Seminar: "You must have enjoyed it".
Thu 10 Dec
|Microsoft Teams
David Gowar M.A. guides us through a personal account of domestic abuse and coercive control. This session will be designed for apprentices and students, but open to all practitioners across ur partner agencies.


Time & Location
10 Dec 2026, 10:00 – 11:30
Microsoft Teams
About the Event
This PWLE seminar is specifically for Social Work apprentices and students who are from one of the West Midlands Social Work Teaching Partnership's partner organisations. Please see below for our Partner organisations.
This PWLE seminar hopes to give learners a better understanding of what it's like to live with domestic abuse and coercive control, the challenges men face when trying to get help, the behaviours and tactics that may be used by female perpetrators to gaslight and misdirect professionals, how children are affected by living with domestic abuse, how post-separation abuse can often be ignored, and how unconscious bias can blind professionals, such as social workers and police, to evidence.
Areas covered:
•A personal account of experiencing domestic abuse and post- separation abuse - including interactions with Social Workers and the Family Court.
• Perpetrator behaviours and tactics designed to gaslight and misdirect professionals.
• The effects that living with domestic abuse, coercive control and post-separation abuse can have on children.
• The dangers of unconscious bias.
There will be plenty of opportunities for discussion and Q&A!
David Gowar spent eight years as a residential social worker. He has an MA in Social and Political Science from Cambridge University and was invited to become a member of University of Worcester service user and carer group (IMPACT) in 2013 to share his experience of domestic abuse, post-separation abuse, false allegations and institutionalized prejudice. He is a passionate advocate for change in the way male victims of domestic abuse and coercive control are treated by legal and human services professionals.
Partner organisations:
Birmingham Children's Trust
Birmingham City Council
Birmingham City University
City of Stoke-on-Trent Council
City of Wolverhampton Council
Coventry City Council
Coventry University
Dudley Metropolitan Borough Council
Keele University
Sandwell Children's Trust
Sandwell Metropolitan Borough Council
Solihull Metropolitan Borough Council
Staffordshire County Council
Staffordshire University
Telford & Wrekin Council
University College Birmingham
University of Birmingham
University of Warwick
University of Wolverhampton
University of Worcester
Walsall Council
Warwickshire County Council
Worcestershire County Council
